First off, as to your entry of 11/2/08 you wrote:
The only drag was that time ran out before I could feature our drummer Vanderlai, very accomplished at Brazilian music, to set up and lead Samba de Orfeu...
The first time I heard that tune was on the LP "Jazz Impressions of Black Orpheus" by the Vince Guaraldi Trio and was impressed by the drumming of Colin Bailey. Although that album dated back to the 60s, CB is a monster player and still playing in the San Francisco area.
But back to the topic at hand, I would like to add two of my pet peeves:
1. Don't criticize the other musicians in the band. It's my band, not yours, and I hired them because I like the way they play.
2. Act your age on the bandstand. I should not have to reprimand you for belching into your microphone while playing at an upscale restaurant/lounge.
For Pete's sake, it's like running a day care sometimes.