going to revive this because, truth is, some of the things that were said were hurtful and pretty much led me to resolve to limit my future postings here - of course, quite obviously Sonnymax insulted me by implying that I could never criticize another performer without thereby meaning that I was purely jealous of their success; an obviously stupid thing to say; can Larry Kart never criticize another writer? Especially if that writer is better known? and Pete C, whom I like, really missed the point by posting, in relation to my saying I was depressed by these kind of success stories:
" If you get depressed by other people's success you need to either:
a) Stop seeking "success" as in fame or monetary reward (you're already a success in the most important sense)
b) Take up Zen Buddhism or something like it*
thanks, I will remember this next time I am depressed by Mitt Romney's success, or Kenny G's; or the Tea Party's, or John Boehner's or Ronald Reagan's or the slave traders of the 1600s.
We need to avoid turning disagreements into personal attacks. I know the moderators here don't intercede in these kinds of situations, but I find it insulting when someone who disagrees with me attacks my motivations rather than my argument.
anyone who knows me is aware that I have helped a lot of other performers without regard to my relative lack of musical success; and that I am not jealous of other players, with whom I regularly share recorded space. And I have spent about 35 years assisting and promoting other players, without personal benefit.