I'll take your word for it, but the way you described the event, it sounded like the only thing missing was Sinatra snapping his fingers before the $20 was proffered.
Nah, you got it all wrong.
Two guys that know each other come to pay their respects to a dead man, that man was my grandfather. One of the two men I knew, the other one happened to be Frank Sinatra. The one man I knew gave me a $20 bill, the other one gave me a little pat on the shoulder. Two completely seperate gestures by two people that happened to be walking together.