I remember Bill Triglia telling me about a wedding he worked with Wilbur Ware, someplace in New Jersey in the 1960s - he said how amazing it was for someone in the rhythm section to be working with Ware - complete support and always musically brilliant - nice wedding band (and Triglia, by the way, has an amazing story about Bird sitting in with his band at a Jewish wedding - better than the Bird movie fiction) -
there's a very nice feature I heard Ware do recently, on a Matthew Gee CD, on Loverman (an OJC, I think) -