it's beyond my understanding, Chris, why you keep hitting me up on this! you have made this comment, in various forms, time and again about me. i am a bit younger than you but i happen to have lost many, many close personal friends through the years and of course it is accelerating in recent years. and because of my years and my life activities, i am affected often by the passings of public figures as well. and i do read the obits in the l.a. times on a daily basis. and, quite unfortunately, there's hardly a week that goes by when i don't know, or know of, the names i read. this week it's been wilfred middlebrooks and ivan dixon. why must you continuously make fun of me for this? i do not choose to stick my head in the sand. must i be open to ridicule by you for this? you and i happen to have a mutual friend who has been going through some serious medical issues lately. is that amusing to you as well? your behavior is extremely perplexing to me.