I see a lot of people were influenced by their fathers. My dad played trombone in a big band for 30 years, but I never was really into jazz as much as rock.
When I was 28 my girlfriend was listening to Stan Getz, Sarah Vaughan, Kenny Burrell, Clifford Brown, some Blue Note stuff. After a month or two of lurking I joined the Blue Note board in July of 99 and was reading what guys like Lon and Kevin[remember him?] and Morgan Fanatic and other were discussing. At that time I was beginning my painful journey into hi-fi and just put together my first decent stereo set-up. So we went to Tower and got some new rvgs and connoisseurs, Sidewinder, Life Time [didn't go well at the time], Ike Quebec's Bossa Nova Soul Samba. She had a very good taste and ear for music.
Someone I was seeing a few months later used to date a well-known New York bass player, so we went to clubs a lot. She was a bohemian and a bit of a jazz groupie, not as much a lover of music, but she also happened to have some good cds, so I continued to grow musically.