No dude, you grab your horn and start goin' Albert Ayler on their ass. And then when they get upset, just innocently say, "What?! I'm just jammin' with ya!"
Reminds me of two college parties I went to/killed. the first was actually a pretty nice scene, good "accessories" were being consumed, dancing was going on, and pairings were being formed. That is, until, I slipped on Funkentelechy Vs. the Placebo Syndrome. Then it became apparent that innocent white folks could dance to EWF, Kool & the Gang, Ohio Players, all that shit, but not to P-Funk. Not even to "Flashlight". (at least not back then. Today's a differnt story. Kinda...) The beginning of a life's education, that was...
Then there was the "jazz party" a few years later where the sounds were all of the "Lab Band Approved For Your Protection" variety. I had just scored a new LP copy of Destination Out (then still in print!) and got it put on the turntable. Well, that party was over before Side One was.
I don't go to many parties any more. Guess I'm just no fun.
Reminds me of when I would go to parties (in the very early 80's) where they were playing stuff like Blondie, or Rush or whatnot, and as soon as I got a chance I would throw on More Songs About Buildings and Food, or an early Ramones album and EVERYBODY would start bumming out and whining. I thought that was accessible music (it's not as if I was putting on Captain Beefheart or the Velvet Underground for Godsake) but at that time the kids in my neck of the woods just hated that shit. It was both funny and depressing simultaneously.