But if the sex IS extraordinary, you'll need to rethink this whole "jazz" thing.
Sex is extraordinary NOW, you must look things in perspective, get all the sex you can, listen the iPod in the your private moments, aka bathroom time, wait for the unavoidable collapse of sexual magic meanwhile collect all those Ayler and Braxton, you'll need them in the cold winter's night.
Add some rat's poison in the junk food your roomate surely consume watching tv.
Maybe I am too cynic.