No offense intended.....but this "my own" money thing between some married couples is something that is quite foreign to me. I don't quite get what it's all about.
....or were you just joking?
No joke, though all our income is my pension. I draw out cash every week for our small stuff - meals/drinks out, trips to hairdresser, make up, garden plants etc are what she spends it on; tobacco, books and records for me; and I also spend some on favourite groceries in a few specialist delicatessens. If I want to buy stuff on the web, I have to save it out of this cash and put it into a specific account, which feeds a specific credit card. The point is never to let buying records come before the family needs; that was easier while I was working, of course.
MG