i'm glad you guys aren't mad at me for 'telling tales out of school'. i feel guilty making any negative comments about friends---especially deceased ones who aren't around to defend themselves. but this was the tommy turrentine i knew: a brilliant but messed-up guy who was capable of being like a lovable child at times. he used to tease people he liked, saying 'you ugly'. one time at the jct a little kid turned the tables on him, saying 'YOU ugly!'. so there were good times with him, too, for sure. he was a true friend, too, who always told the truth, even if it hurt. i have a lot more tommy t. stories in a book i almost finished about the nyc jazz scene in the '80s. unfortunately, said book is in the bowels of a computer with a crashed hard drive---and, foolishly, i didn't back up the data...