Whoa, Jim. You're running close to Ebert territory here (he actually had his Facebook page blocked for a while for saying unkind things about the death of the Jackass star, who pretty clearly had been drinking and driving). Maybe you need some more time to reflect on this before people's feelings get bent. ( )
Oh, I know it's a tragedy for everybody involved, feelings get bent enough right there, believe me, I know, but... at what point does "What did you THINK was going to happen" become a more realistic - and therefore ultimately positive - reaction than "Oh how sad!"?
If the correct answer is "never", then...we're all just enabling, each in our own way.
I'm not at the point in my life where people knowingly and repeatedly making clearly piss-poor lifestyle choices is something for which I have any interest in finding excuses. We got real problems with inadequate rehab options and recovery support systems, and that makes me just as mad, but one wrong does not excuse the other, ya' know? I've seen enough of this stuff to know the power of the pull back in, but I've also seen too many people reject a helluva lot of serious and sincere help being offered, so hey - you can't protect people from themselves. Not forever.
If Amy Winehouse OD's and dies, what did she THINK was going to happen?
Yes! It is kind of hard to make the case that Amy Winehouse is a victim of circumstance. She has everything going for her, and plenty of money to get any kind of help that she needs. It is just a matter of her taking responsibility for herself. That is the primary responsibility of any adult.
Amy Winehouse is a victim of her disease. I hope this isn't going to have a tragic end, but it's not looking too good for now.
This afternoon I heard about a woman I knew locally. She had an increasingly dicey connection to reality and that didn't help her get her act together, now she's dead. The brain damage caused by years of drink & drugs made her unable to get a solid grip on any help, a downward spiral that she never pulled out of. The last few times I saw her around, she wasn't making any sense at all.