dont worry free for all we'll help u through this man- u are a longtime jazz-soul-brother here and we''re on your side--to hell with her all u need is us organissimoians. if it was truly sudden, then she either met someone else or has been watching the oprah too much and shes moving on to 'find herself', which can go down two roads: 1) she will open a small arts and crafts botique or 2) i dont want to tell you about #2, you dont want to hear about #2