I know I've been guilty of the "boys' locker room" mentality from time to time and am trying to clean that up.
I think the Getz thread, whatever bullshit might have been part & parcel from the get-go, escalated far beyond that once Sivma and Bev got into it. Sorry Bev, all due respect for your stance, but you were there when the pot got stirred. Clearly you've got some great stories and opinions formulated as a result of those experiences and I hope you stick around, too. But I'm not going to say that calling people out left & right won't raise some hackles - even if you were "there."
And neveronfriday, sorry to see you go, but your comments in this thread are a bit oblique. Really.