At least your in good company. It all probably started with Bix & Tram and has been going on ever since. Can't please everybody. Especially the ignorant, racially-minded "fu@K heads" out there walking the earth.
Hell, it even started BEFORE Bix and Tram. . . .
It's different here in the South (Texas likes to think it's the West! but it's more South if you ask me) than up in Kevin's neck of the woods. . . . All I can say is though no one has been bold enough to really address those comments to me, and those I hang with are beyond race indeed, but I have overheard this in offices and in clubs. And I've been able to challenge or query it a few times and I think honestly these remarks are not thought through, they're just an automatic response more often than not. . . .Which really isn't too surprising to me, here in the south.