Jim, my thoughts and prayers for you and your wife. Not much to add, except I checked webmd, and those symptoms didn't bring up anything. Seems like their site sucks, IMO. You don't want to go crazy seeing every health problem known to man, but you might try some of her symptoms in a google search...
Also, ask EVERYONE you know about good doctors, there are some good ones(Sometimes a sharp P.A. is better than the doc they work for!) out there, and they tend to know the other good ones, if your friends can't recommend a good neurologist themselves.
I could tell you stories good and bad about emergency room doctors...
Again, best of luck!