Well, I look at it like when you're 18 or so, even 22 or so, it's easy to be blinded by the glitz and stuff, and yeah, fall victim to industry pressures of all sorts. But geez, these ladies are all old enough to be grown up and to have figured some stuff out on their own by now. If they haven't, I figure it's just because they don't want to bad enough (for whatever reasons), and that I just can't feel any sympathy for. We all have to accept responsibility for our work eventually. Even Divas.
It's like I used to work with a local a female R&B singer who was, like 28 or 29, and was still making extra money by turning tricks (and she made lots of money, because she had a "high-dollar" body). The bass player in her band said to me one night, "Gee I feel sorry for *****, how she still thinks the only way she can be somebody is with her body". I told him - look, man, the woman's damn near 30 and has made the kind of money that a lot of women her age only dream about. If she wanted a different life for herself by now, she'd be working on getting one. Until she does, no "symapthy" from me. Nobody's keeping her where she is except herself.
That's pretty much how I feel about the whole thing - these women have achieved a stature in the industry such that if they really wanted to do something better, outsized fame and fortune be damned, they'd find a way to do it.