I tip 20% at least, sometimes more. I have friends who work at a bar and who usually give me fat discounts, in which case I figure what I was comped and tip on what the "real total" would be.
I consider this borderline unethical.
Why? You treat your regulars well. Your regulars then stay regular and keep the atmosphere nice.
Also, living in NYC off tips isn't easy, though maybe at upscale restaurants a bit better.
Being of a somewhat younger generation and having been broke with a lot of friends in the service industry or working freelance, I've realized that in lieu of livable wages, those tips matter. Y'all stingy.
well it obviously all depends on the circumstances. If your friends who work at the bar are also the owners of the establishment it's not the same issue as if they just give their friends a generous discount on the cost of the owners. for a generous tip.
As I said having worked in the business myself I have all the sympathy for the workers. On the other hand they are also notorious for cheating,