Otoh, when somebody gets "aggressive" about something that they misunderstand and then double down on that aggression after the misunderstanding is clearly explained, I just figure that for whatever reason they are looking for a "fight" of some sort, and, no, sorry, not that fight, and not like that.
Participation here is is entirely voluntary. We've had to ban...less than 10 people over the years, probably around 5, maybe even less. So if anybody wants to leave, that's their choice. There are no "victims", other than self- inflictions.
One pretty basic rule of common courtesy though - don't demand an apology for something that didn't happen. Rings don't get kissed here.