Bach was a family man. Regarding mortals The people at Fat Cat are practically saints and are doing more for talented but lesser-known musicians for anyone else in NY except maybe Smalls. In your neck of the woods the only people I know are Lazaro Vega and Tim Scully and I have nothing but admiration for both. Lorraine is a creep who inherited a great club through marriage and ran it into the ground. Her importance is completely to herself.
WTF does that have to do with where I live. If you are hinting I'm in the hinterlands, I was in the Vanguard a couple of weeks ago to hear the big band.
FWIW, met Max back in the day and spent a delightful afternoon in a bar with Lorraine in the early '80s.