I took this from the thread called New Issue JAZZIZ pretty good. This is by Ed Swinnich in response to a mean-spirited comment he made concerning Greg's recent appearance on this board.
I am closing this thread. Those involved need to figure out if not checking their ego and apologizing are worth losing a friend and/or holding a grudge in this small community. Whether or not something was said is not as important as whether or not someone thinks something was said and is offended and/or hurt by it.
The easiest way to solve this is to say, "I didn't intend my comment to convey that, but if it did, I'm sorry." But so far all we've seen are responses akin to a badger with it's back up against the wall. I'm speaking to all involved here.
I suggest some time off from this to think about how we can better treat each other without getting defensive. If after reading this you immediately think, "Well, he's the one who said..." than it hasn't been long enough. Keep thinking.
I will not have this board devolve into bickering and flame-wars like the old BNBB.