The beginning was pretty stressful, with a constant battle to stay with the agency I spent more than 24 years with by the end of my state career. It had gone south fast and was in its peak of crappiness by 2002. I made a severe job change to stay employed and was unhappier by the day. Faced with her own challenges working at the University, my wife was frazzled but a great haven for me. When I finally got a bit of a chance to relax into my job, my wife was diagnosed with lymphoma and we spent two years battling the disease, ultimately unsuccessfully. I had to fight to remain employed all over again, and also to have every bit of time I needed to be a support for her throughout her treatment. I just managed to do that up to her death and literally while I was at her deathbed my job was changed radically again and for the worse, and I lasted it out bravely another seven months and was able to retire myself out of it.
I got through my grief, I gained some financial independence, and I gained a new love in my life all in 2008. 2009 has been a year of comfort and ease in many ways. Additionally, I've been able to help a few friends and that is a good thing. I consider the decade closing off well for me, and I'm beginning to think of employment. Still no clue what to seek, but it will come to me soon. It will be good to get back in the stream of things, a different stream I hope.