DTMX Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 You and your family have my sincerest condolences, Jim. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Late Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 My deepest sympathies. My father-in-law passed away from a heart attack at 61 — I was just getting to know him. We'd recently discovered a common bond through music. He told me about hearing Woody Herman and Stan Kenton in Los Angeles in the 50's — I was surprised and intrigued to hear that his father had even subbed as a replacement drummer for Kenton a couple of times. When my father-in-law passed, I didn't have the chance to learn more. I know you'll treasure the shared experiences and stories you heard from your dad. It is so great to have a dad. When my first daughter died three years ago, I didn't think I could go on. Somehow I did, and you will too. You'll have that deep care for your family to always carry you through. I hope I didn't type too much here. I just wanted to let you know that the human spirit is strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chuck Nessa Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Our heartfelt sympathies to you, family and friends. Peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Claude Schlouch Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Jim, I'm very sorry to hear this very sad news. Claude Schlouch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost of miles Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 You will carry his spirit on as you raise your family, Jim. Your children are as lucky to have you as you were to have him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bright Moments Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 jim i am so sorry to hear about your loss. i hope you can find strength and peace during this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parkertown Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 So sorry to hear this Jim. You were both lucky to have each other! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tim McG Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 My condolences, Jim. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorldB3 Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Jim, My deepest sympathies. I lost both of my parents when they were both in their 50's when I had just turned 30. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeweil Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 My sincere condolences, Jim. I know how you feel about not being at home when it happened. I was out giving lessons when my dad collapsed when entering his office one afternoon, but had a strange feeling, postponed my evening lessons and went back home, and found my mother's note on the steps. Passing away in the garden - sad for those who did find him, but what a peaceful way to go ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randissimo Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 I am still in shock myself. First time I met Jim's dad I liked him and I really got to know Jim "Theo" Afredson while being a guest in his home in Okemos on several occasions. Jim's dad had a lodging arrangement with me. He told me if ever on the road from Ann Arbor, Lansing, or Detroit and it was late and I was tired to call and the porch light would be on and refered to his place as the "Home For Wayward Musicians & Drummers".. I spent and enjoyed many memorable times hanging out with Theo listening to his music, his great stories, perspectives, anecdotes, his fascinating philosophies and interpretations on religion and spirituality, and my god what a sense of humor! I often told him he should write a book! He was a gift, an inspiration for me, and truly one of a kind.. For organissimo he was our most loyal fan, loved our music, and was always supportive. Organissimo and the music of our first CD was created in his basement on Okemos Road. He deeply loved his family, music, life, people, and enjoyed every day to it's fullest measure. My deepest condolences to Venetia, Jim, Alison, Zora, Stella, and all of Jim's siblings and their children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medjuck Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 So sorry to hear this. My sincere condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TedR Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 The love and relationship you shared with your father is very touching.........and I am deeply saddened for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man. My father died this past February. Now I can't seem to type through the tears....I'm so very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man with the Golden Arm Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Very, very sorry to hear. My sympathies to you and your family and friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teasing the Korean Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Very sorry to hear this. I lost my dad years ago, so I can relate. It's nice that you had a musical bond too. My dad and I shared a lot of common musical tastes and I still have several of his LPs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry Kart Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 I'm sorry, Jim. Your loss clearly is great, but it seems clear that was in part because there was so much shared good there. That doesn't make things easier, I know, but all that he gave you is in you, and most or all of it can be kept alive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeBop Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Very sorry to hear. My condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexander Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Jim, I'm so very, very sorry to hear about this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trane_fanatic Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 My deepest condolences, Jim. May God bless his soul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Garrett Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Jim. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soul Stream Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Sorry Jim. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DukeCity Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Jim, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paul secor Posted May 10, 2008 Report Share Posted May 10, 2008 Jim - my condolences on the loss of a father and a friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave James Posted May 11, 2008 Report Share Posted May 11, 2008 (edited) Jim, I can't say it much better at this point than others already have. Just a couple of thoughts. First, be happy that your Dad had a chance to meet your new daughter. Second, try to focus as much as you can on what you have, not what you've lost. You clearly have lots of friends on this board who, as one, share in your loss. Edited May 11, 2008 by Dave James Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neal Pomea Posted May 11, 2008 Report Share Posted May 11, 2008 You lost a lot! I am sorry for you and your family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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