I still dig Ned Goold's playing, but jeezusfukkinkryst dude, you've given me a mental image of a "dominant chord" as something that wears a full-body black leather suit with no eye holes and wants to stick a baseball bat up my ass. And woe be unto me if I scream in anything other than the painful ecstasy of humiliating surrender. Where's the "lightness" there?
I mean, I'm all for "surrender", but I'd like to think that to what and to whom is as much a matter of serendipity as it is predestined servitude ordained by somebody/something that at any given time may or may not have benevolent intentions towards my ultimate well-being.
"Freedom" and "discipline" are only as useful where they get you. You can never fully escape the cage, but decorating it doesn't make it any bigger, or any less of a cage. You can, however, get inside a bigger cage (or succession of cages), simply by walking out the door and looking around. The door's not locked. They just hang the keys on the wall to make you think that it is.
Oh volunteered slavery...