JSngry Posted May 24, 2020 Report Share Posted May 24, 2020 Well, you know at some level that when it comes to choosing a partner, you like and want that safe falling on your head thing. So that's what you went with. Cost-benefit, anything not that would have not cut it for you, I'm sure you had options for finding/trying that out. Too much cost, not enough benefit. I mean, don't get me wrong, you're not alone in this preference. Other side of the coin - I'm convinced now more than ever that people who keep making bad/"bad" choices do so because whether they realize it consciously or not, that's what they really want. If it's not, they need to figure out how to want something different more than what they currently want or else just deal with accepting themselves as wanting what they want. But, you know, at what point does an "apology" become nothing more than a really personalized excuse. which itself is nothing more than a distraction designed to buy time to get it going to do the same thing over again and again and again? The really powerful people in life, the ones who have real power, are the ones who are honest with themselves about themselves. They can be killed off, but they cannot be beaten into place. Me, I try to keep that in mind when picking both true friends and true enemies, and everybody else in between. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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