My wife over the past 12 years has slowly warmed up to some of the milder stuff I play like Swing, Swang, Swinging by McLean, but she definitely does not like free jazz or anything that gets wild or out of control (she refers to it as an orchestra warming up). Having said that, she gets how much I love jazz and even tolerates it when I blow a couple hundred here and there (so long as I can convince her that the cds I'm buying are rare and OOP ) and that I play the wilder stuff when she's not around. All in all, not a bad arrangement.